When we are confused about love we can work to become more self aware. We can then look inwards to find direction. Every experience that we have is encoded in our brains. This is certainly true from the day we are born, and many people believe that we also have access to past life experiences.
What is the purpose of filing away all that data? Although
we are unaware of it, our unconscious dictates many important life
decisions such as who we choose to love. Our unconscious has access to
all of these memories. When we are confused about love we can work to
bring awareness to the memories that are dictating our decisions, we are
then able to make conscious choices regarding our life partners.